Month: February 2024

My Co-Workers Are Insane

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Why can’t I have coworkers that turn into family like most people?

Mine are so annoying!

I am 39 and have worked since I was 16yrs old. ALWAYS kept a job!

In over 20yrs of working, I have had 8 jobs (5 “grown-up jobs”). Currently I have been working at a Credit Union for almost 5yrs. The older I get the more I am learning, the longer you are at a job, you find out the real craziness in folks.

  • There will always be that one person who has been there almost 20yrs and literally gets away with things they are not supposed to do.
  • The one that has been at the company for 10+ yrs and still dont know what the hell they are doing!
  • The one that can’t handle professional criticism and always defensive.
  • Let’s not forget the one that literally comes in, doesn’t speak (When you ask her questions, she has an attitude) does her work and just leave.

I also have a coworker that HUMS LOUDLY while she has her ear plugs in and burps!

BUT, even after all this, I love what I do, and I do my job very well! Income is good, benefits are great and 15min from my home.

I’m blessed to have a job .. still annoyed though.

No Friends

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I am back!

I keep telling myself I need to come back to blogging…here I am!

So much has been going on! I don’t even know where to start!

Let’s start here…I feel like I have no friends…

I have never had a huge friend circle. Never been that “popular” girl or that girl everyone wanted to be friends with…BUT, I wasn’t that “loser” girl either LOL

Always had a small circle.

The problem with a small circle of friends is sooner or later, you’re the last one in the circle, if you know what I mean.

I feel like the BIGGEST reason is I am outgrowing my friendships. I have 3 friends; they all have kids (I am the only without) and 2 of us are married. I will be 40yrs old in May, I love doing more things with my husband now, especially traveling. The ONE trip I did go on with one of my friends was a complete disaster and I absolutely hated it! That made me never want to go on another trip with any of my friends lol

Recently, my husband has been having back pain, trouble walking, numbness .. where he had to go off work while he undergoes tests to see what is going on.

You think any of my “friends” have been checking on me?

I texted one of my friends a few weeks ago and checked up on her because she was studying to be an Insurance Agent and you know what she said back? She DIDNT answer my question but questioned WHY I didn’t wish her son who just turned ONE a Happy Birthday … this is her THIRD SON. TURNED O N E. Well, excuse the fuck out of me for forgetting!? WTF! Have you checked on me and my sanity to make sure I am good while I am thee only one working and taking care of absolutely everything!

I just feel so alone. And this is why I have come back to Blogging. I need this outlet.