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Moving On…

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I believe I wrote a Blog on last year losing my whole friend circle (It was 3 girls).

Two of the girls we just stopped talking. We were never that close. No blood was shed. Just moved on.

The last girl and I were friends for almost 20yrs. We share a ton of memories, and it ended off something so crazy and small that I am still confused about the whole thing.

Last year, her and I was going through the hardest times of our lives: her mother passed, and my husband was diagnosed with MS and stopped working.

She just moved into a new home and was having TWO 4th of July parties. The first one her husband was having for his coworkers (Which I later found out was his previous coworkers and he recently QUIT his current job out the blue). She called me, without notification, at 8pm to come to the first one because she was there alone and bored. I was home, didn’t want to go but still went. The 2nd one couldn’t attend because I went into work for overtime, which was needed because I was now the sole provider.

I let her know this a couple weeks before because she is absolutely insane about people coming to her events.

After the party, I called to ask how it went.

She acted like she had an attitude and wouldn’t answer my questions. I said OKAY. I’ll call you later.

Couple days went back, and I texted and asked her about something else she was trying to do (I believe it was a class or something) and how it was going. She went off about me not coming to her party and why. I reminded her that I had to work. And she started bringing up so many things that happened years ago. And we basically went back and forth for the entire day.

The years prior, I noticed our friendship dwindling. I knew we would stop talking eventually because I felt like I was outgrowing her, as bad as that sounds. But I just didn’t want it to end like this.

It has now been a year since we spoke, and it has been on my mind ever since. How petty it was, how she could just stop talking to me out of NOWHERE when other “friends” of hers have done so much worse: 1) Stood her up on her birthday, 2) Didn’t even come to her mother’s FUNERAL 3) Constantly lied to her and the list continues. She STILL TALKS TO THESE PEOPLE!

Yesterday was her birthday. I decided I was going to text her, just apologize for the argument (Even though I did nothing wrong) and see where we could go from there…which is probably NO WHERE. I just wanted to have an adult conversation on what happened and leave it. I could never be friends with her again. I really need closure. This has truly been like breaking up with a man. I have never encountered something like this, but it has truly heart me. It has been on my mind and my heart ever since.

I text her a long text apologizing and I even sent it via FB Messenger.

I never got a response.

I even called later that night and it went straight to voicemail. I seriously couldn’t believe she BLOCKED me! I left a long voicemail and that was it…I can’t do anything more.

Almost 20yrs of friendship…because I didn’t come to your party? Not giving me the opportunity to talk to you about it AT ALL?

Like I said, we were growing apart…just crazy how it finally happened…

I believe this is The Most High’s way of letting me know that was the end of that Season of my life. Time to make room for Godly friends that want to be in my life, have Godly conversations with, worship with, pray with and literally won’t be childish!

Time to move on…

No Friends

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I am back!

I keep telling myself I need to come back to blogging…here I am!

So much has been going on! I don’t even know where to start!

Let’s start here…I feel like I have no friends…

I have never had a huge friend circle. Never been that “popular” girl or that girl everyone wanted to be friends with…BUT, I wasn’t that “loser” girl either LOL

Always had a small circle.

The problem with a small circle of friends is sooner or later, you’re the last one in the circle, if you know what I mean.

I feel like the BIGGEST reason is I am outgrowing my friendships. I have 3 friends; they all have kids (I am the only without) and 2 of us are married. I will be 40yrs old in May, I love doing more things with my husband now, especially traveling. The ONE trip I did go on with one of my friends was a complete disaster and I absolutely hated it! That made me never want to go on another trip with any of my friends lol

Recently, my husband has been having back pain, trouble walking, numbness .. where he had to go off work while he undergoes tests to see what is going on.

You think any of my “friends” have been checking on me?

I texted one of my friends a few weeks ago and checked up on her because she was studying to be an Insurance Agent and you know what she said back? She DIDNT answer my question but questioned WHY I didn’t wish her son who just turned ONE a Happy Birthday … this is her THIRD SON. TURNED O N E. Well, excuse the fuck out of me for forgetting!? WTF! Have you checked on me and my sanity to make sure I am good while I am thee only one working and taking care of absolutely everything!

I just feel so alone. And this is why I have come back to Blogging. I need this outlet.

Un-Welcome Guest

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Yesterday, my friend Carilyn and I went to Emagine theater to go see New Moon. It was amazing like I knew it would be. I love the theater we went to. It had an open bar and of course I got my Long Island (Thats my go-to drink now-a-days) and it was sooo strong and good! Yum!
After the movies we went over to Hooters to eat. I never ate there before but heard the food was good. Which it wasn’t. I had a fish sandwich and fries…fish was hard and the fries was under cooked. Never will go to again…
While we were there a mutual “internet” friend we talk to sent Carilyn a message asking her if he could join us (I’m assuming he read her tweet in knowing where we were. He said he works across the street and was so close so he stopped by). I met this guy on Yahoo Messenger…maybe in a chat room. I have talked to him on there for yeeeeears. But we never met. I have this thing that I keep internet friends…internet friends and real life friends….real life friends. How him and Carilyn met on the internet…niether her nor I really know the answer to that question. I have a HUUUUGE hunch: Me and him were talking over the chat one day about a party my friend Carilyn was going to…it was called the Black Party a lot of people here go to. He was going as well. He claimed maybe he knew her…I said I highly doubt it. Next thing I knew, he was following her on twitter…all of a sudden he’s Facebook friends with her. I became a little bit angry cause I believed after he and I had that conversation that he took it upon himself to go to my Twitter (He & I are following each other) look for her, follow her and then look for her on Facebook. She doesn’t know him. She didn’t think anything of it because their mutual friend on Facebook is another guy she knows so she just think he added her because of him. Why I dont think so? Because this guy is a lame…while we messaged each other he constantly asked for pics of me, relationships, do I got a man, my friends I could hook him up with. Its like he was basically being a little desperate and my gurl is starting to feel the same way cause she now getting the same 21 questions. No, I dont think he is crazy…someone just want hold hundreds of conversations with you for more than 5yrs and never try and do something (As in asking to meet constantly) …just think he wants a little more female attention.
Back to the story, so once Carilyn told he could come (Which she really didnt, but she was being nice) he shows up 10min later like he was outside waiting for her response. All of a sudden, he there standing saying hi…ummm ok. The conversation was ok. But for some reason it was just a little bit awkward. You could tell he was tryin to talk to my gurl and she def wasn’t interested. lol I was getting a little drunk because I had another 2 Long Islands :). I asked him why he wasn’t drinking. He said he had to get home and clean his apartment! I looked at my phone and it was around 8pm! I was like ummm ok. That made me think he was more of a lame that I thought! I then told him I would buy him a shot…just 1 shot. He said he used to drink all the time but doesn’t anymore like that. Every now and then. Ok ok ok. So he didnt take it so I let it go. Our food came…he claimed his food was cold to get more food. Carilyn thought he was being cheap and wanted to get more food. lol
After eating, we went over to Lucky’s. Its a fun place with lots of games and arcades…and a bar! We bought a card with money to play. We just paid $5. Carilyn thought a real gentleman would have paid for me and her to pay. I understood where she was coming from but it wasn’t a date or anything…but I understood. We played some games. We then went to the bar. Carilyn got a drink. I just got water because I had to sober up to drive back home (Dont drink and drive!). All of a freakin sudden…he WANTS A DRINK! Im like I offered you that in the restaurant and now he wants it! But I am a woman of my word…but he didn’t want a shot. He wants a drink. I asked him what kind. For a person that used to drink allll the time, he had no clue. Dont remember what his favorite drink was or nothing…so you know what he got…Rum & Coke. I just started cracking up. I told him to get a man drink. lol He laughed and he still wanted it so I said fine. Carilyn had a small amount of wine left and he asked for it. I guess to front he could down it or something? Yeah…big man!
I can read people so well sometimes. I dont understand why he had to lie and say he used to drink all the time. With me, you dont have to lie to kick it. I have at least 1 friend that doesnt drink. I dont try and persuade her to. Im fine with it. Life goes on. lol He obviously didnt know what he wanted cause he didnt know what kind of drinks are out there…so he got the easiest one he could think of. And probably the lightest…just a baby drink…or maybe Im just an alchi! lol
So we are finally leaving and Carilyn and I are going to my car and he to his. On the way to my car, he claims he will walk us to my car. Im like ok. As we are walking, we dont even get to the parking lot…we are about to cross the street to get to the cars and he says “Ok see you guys later”. I say “I thought you were going to walk us to my car”. He said “ITS TOO COLD!” Are you serious? YOU volunteered to walk us. We didnt ask. And now all of a sudden, its too cold? So we said fine. Bye. And we started walking (I was laughing…in disgust). He then says ok he will walk us but can I give him a ride to his car. I just looked at him…then looked away thinkin “Is this brother fo real?” By the time we got to my car, he says he is pretty near by and says he will walk. I give him a hand slap and say holla!
So it was a fun night….

Trying To Help…

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I have said in previous Blogs I don’t have many close friends. And the close friends I have I try to best to keep them that way and do everything I can for them.
One of my friends have a mutual associate. This associate has done crap to both me and her. I told the associate how we are not friends and the reason why. We will never hang out. But if she does talk to me (On Yahoo) I will answer but it doesn’t go farther than that. I refuse to let people think we are cool as hell we when are not.
A couple months ago this associate came to my girl’s home…unexpected…not calling…just showing up. Of course, she didn’t answer the door. Just ignored it. My friend doesn’t like coming and telling people they are not cool. Which is a little weird because she is pretty blunt with everyone else…but not to people that really need to hear it.
Today, I was speaking with this person online and she mentioned going to her house and her not answering the door. So, I just let her know. I basically told her that my girl doesn’t consider her to be a friend and they aint cool like that and never will be. She then got very defensive and asked why my friend sent her a friend request on Facebook. I said I didn’t know and all I could tell her was what my girl told me. She then got angry and wrote my gurl a message on Facebook. I was thinking “Oh great!” I was so mad at myself for putting myself as the monkey in the middle when I should have just kept my mouth shut…so I sent a text to my friend to give her a heads up of what just happened, and she was going to get a message from her.
My friend then texted me back very irritated and that this was childish, she doesn’t care, and she is over the whole situation, and I should have never said anything.
I felt horrible. Why did I say anything?
I then check my Twitter updates. My friend is updating her status with messages of her friend circle is getting smaller and smaller and she is okay with that. And that she is tired of fake people. Is she talking about me? This little thing I did…trying to help…and now she is calling me fake? Is it that serious? I never even asked. I didn’t want to know the answer.
The next day I asked her a question about something different and before she answered the question she asked if I was going to say sorry regarding what I did or just ignore the whole situation.
I then apologized and said I was wrong. I then said if she was okay with having people come to her house unexpected and not say anything to them about them not being cool like that…fine. Its your business.
Was I that wrong? Me and my friend have never got into any kind of fight in the 11yrs we have known each other and to call me fake…wow! Hopefully she was speaking of someone else….
Next time I will know better…

Valued Life Lesson

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I hate losing good friends. I hate losing good friends for stupid reasons. Most importantly, I hate losing good friends because of horrible boyfriends.
I had lots of great friends throughout my college career. One in particular was Shanna. We met my sophomore year and had a lot of things in common. We had the same major and had tons of classes together. I went to dinner with her other friends as well as outings and even to church. She was actually my only Christian friend in college that I could talk to about God. You can defiantly say we were pretty close. We even graduated from college together…sat right next to each other and took pictures.
After college we both went back to our hometowns. We both grew up in Detroit. She still continues to live there but we still lived 15min apart.
Almost 2 years ago, I started my journey on finally getting my license (Yes, I got it at 24yrs old. I was a late bloomer), in which I did, and then started saving my money to buy my 1st car.
Up to this time, my parents and sisters were taking me to and work and they were not happy about it. I was CONSTANTLY getting yelled at because they were tired of taking me everywhere and always asked me again & again when I was going to get my own car. I had only $1500 and got really desperate because I wanted my family off my back so I started asking around to see if anyone was selling cars. Shanna told me about how her new “older” (31yrs old) boyfriend looks for cars and hooks people up all the time. He fixes them up and sales them. So I started calling him and asked him more about this “business” of his because I was now getting desperate for a car and needed help. Because I knew Shanna for 4yrs and I trusted her…I then trusted him.
That was my biggest mistake.
I told her boyfriend of the car I was looking for and my price range. He tells me he finds these cars at auctions and buys, faxes and sales them. He told me if could find me something but at auctions you will need something to put down so he needed $500. Being that I “trusted” him and he knew what he was doing (I knew been to a car auction in my life so had no clue on what went on at these) so I gave it to him. He then tells me he bought a white car (Forgot the name of it) and the price is $1500 and now the mechanic has it and he is doing whatever he needs to do on it.
He then tells me the mechanic needs more money to continue to fix the car. He wants $600. I then tell him I didn’t feel comfortable giving him this amount of money anymore and I haven’t even seen the car yet. So I made him sign a promissory note basically describing the intentions for the funds he is receiving and if I don’t receive a car within another month, I want all my money back. He signs it.
Unfortunately, I never received my car. I started calling him like a stalker ex-girlfriend to give me my money back…even threatened to sue. Her boyfriend continued to lie, lie and lie more about where the car was, that the car was getting still getting fixed, the mechanic broke his hand on something on the car and he couldn’t work (Yeah, I know). He even lied to Shanna and told her he did give the money back to me and she called me right after and I told her hell no!
Shanna felt really bad about the whole situation. She was the one who gave the Go Ahead to his “business”. She said he never did this to anyone before. She then told me she is in a bad spot of being in the middle and doesn’t know how to deal with it. So after that conversation, I stopped calling. It was obvious who wears the pants in that relationship.
So I sued him. He never showed up because he is a coward (And a lot more that I will not go into detail about) so I won. I then could decide how I would get my money back. Of course I wanted to take it from his checks. But I needed all this information in order to do it. And since I didn’t have the info I had to pay more money to do this and that. It just became a drag and a big burden.
Shanna and I friendship began to deteriorate more and more. We stopped talking. Before we stopped completely she even said she will pay me back with her tax returns. I told her that would be nice but that’s not her job. Her man took my money and continued to lie to her face and said he gave it back to me. If you don’t have honesty & trust in a relationship what do you have?
Oh yeah….she also lost her virginity with that piece of shit of a man and became pregnant the very 1st time. So now she is having a baby with a man that aint worth shit! And probably continues to lie to her. A man that will fuck over one of her best friends and don’t even freakin care.
I really wanted to reconcile the friendship I once had with Shanna. Before I deleted my Facebook page, I sent her a message. I wrote how I missed hanging with her and we should do something soon. Of course, it couldn’t be at her place (They lived together) but just go out and hang. She sent me a message back saying she was pregnant again (WTF, this was a girl that never wanted a man to touch her! She has sex one time and can’t stop having babies now, I guess) and of course I was shocked. I told her congrats and gave her my number and for her to please contact me back.
I haven’t changed my number in a year. She hasn’t called yet.
P.S. I eventually got the number of the mechanic that was working on the car (Don’t remember how) and HE actually did hook me up with a great car. It was a 1990 Buick Lasabre and I still drive this car today. I am now looking for something younger! Lol
Unfortunately, I never did get my money back. I just look at it as a very valued life lesson learned…
Never Trust Anyone

Maxwell Concert

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Maxwell was here last night in Detroit, MI at the Joe Louis Arena! It was FAN freakin TASTIC!
Chrisette Michelle & Robin Thicke also came along for the ride and they ROCKED the house as well! I love every min…well the performing part. They started an hour late. Chrisette Michelle was the first act then we had to wait 20min for Robin to come on…but it was defiantly worth it!
In my previous blog, Can You Please Ask, I wrote about how the girl that invited me to go expected me to drive and not even ask. Well, when I got to her house, I learned that everyone that went…DID have a car! I hinted around how I didn’t want to drive and one of the girls said she just drives to everything and just didn’t “feel like it”. Which I can understand, but then again, I was the ONLY one that drank. Can you please just give the drunk that wants to have a really good time a freebie and just do it!
I really got irritated when we went to a club, paid $15 and we just stood around for 15min! I really don’t understand why people go to clubs that don’t drink…I thought for the dancing, but they didn’t do that shit either…so beats me! I wanted a drink so bad! One of the girls said just have one and if I get too drunk someone else can drive. That was my que! Went straight to the bar! So, I got myself a Long Island and then a Rum with Coke! I was pretty tipsy and loving it! lol
I thought my small high would come down before the end of the night, but I didn’t, so she did have to drive back.
Next time she asks me to go out, I will def have my guard up. You just can’t trust no one. I swear.

Can You Please Ask?

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One of my friend’s birthdays is coming up later in the month. She told me about a month ago that she really wanted to do something and would like me to help her find something to do…and to come as well of course.
I said of course I would help out. I really wanted to do something she would like because of her birthday plans did not go so well last year. What happened was she invited 5 or 6 of her friends to go out to a club with her and celebrate…and all of them bailed on her on the day we were supposed to go out…til the very last hour before we were headed out. I was the ONLY one who actually went. I even invited my co-worker to come and called her to confirm hours before we were supposed to go out…I didn’t get nothing but straight to voicemail again and again (I was really pissed at that. And she acted like nothing happened when I saw her again at work…but whatever…that’s bitches for ya). But her and I went to dinner then to a nice neighborhood bar and still had a good time…so that was good.
As many of you should know, Maxwell is on tour and he is actually going to be in my city, Detroit, September 26th. Her birthday is the 29th so of course she wanted to go! Her husband is even buying the tickets for 4 of her girls to go as well! So I thought that was very nice of him.
My friend called me this past weekend to give me more details of her birthday on Sep 26th:
5pm – Red Lobster for dinner
7:30pm – Maxwell Concert
11pm – Hit the club
So I said that’s sounds pretty fun. I asked her everyone that was going and then I asked who was driving. She said one of her friends would be spending the night at her house because she doesn’t want me to have to go all the way on the East Side of Detroit to pick her up. I asked her why cant her friend drive? She said she doesn’t have a license. I then said it doesn’t matter to me if she driving with a license…that’s her problem if she get flicked. My friend then asked, “Oh, you don’t care if she drives your car without a license?” I then asked why she would be driving my car and my friend said because she doesn’t have a license nor a car…. nor does the other girl going and I already knew my friend does have either prior to this as well.
So basically, what she was saying is: I am going to drive us everywhere that night and didn’t even bother to ask me.
Its not because I am just lazy and don’t want to drive but because of the fact that she didn’t ask and just assumed. I was there once too when I didn’t have a car. It took me until last year before I got my license. Yes, I was 24yrs old and just wasn’t ready to drive on my own…I was basically scared of semi’s but knew I had to get over it cause I was TIRED of people taking me everywhere.
My boyfriend told me maybe she thought because her husband is paying for my ticket she just assumed. I guess I can understand that as well…yes, I do appreciate her husband buying my tickets. But lets not forget…he OFFERED and I didn’t ASK. But she still should have asked. I don’t go many places but to work, home and to my other girls place so I don’t get around much (Mainly because I work too much and like to get in sleep on my days off) and defiantly don’t know how to get downtown Detroit (Which is where the concert is being held). But I guess I will Google everything and hope someone in the car know where the hell we are going…
Thoughts about people “assuming” you are going to do something for them?

Time To Get Your Priorities Straight…

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We all have been there. Getting drunk every night. Getting all cute and sexy to go out to the clubs. Getting extremely drunk. Making out with guys/girls…your best friends. Puking everywhere. Peeing in bushes. Being loud, rude and obnoxious. Telling everyone you love him or her. Falling down everywhere. Getting kicked out of clubs for drunken fights. Coming back home with someone you don’t know and having wild sex. Having one nights stands. Staying up til 5am. Not remembering what happened the previous night and getting someone to tell you.
I am not afraid to say I have been there. And, no, I am not referring to every single thing I listed…but some. And, yes, it was fun…while it lasted. One day, you have to grow up. You have to get out that drunken rut and actually become an adult and grow up. Now, I know it’s hard, but life is hard too.
I have a friend. We went to college together. We were and still are the best of friends. I have seen her through many boyfriends. Three to be exact. I have also been there through all he cheating…HER cheating on THEM. When we were in college, I didn’t think anything of it because of the fact that we were in college and we were young and she eventually broke it off because she wasn’t ready for commitments. I understood.
She is now in another relationship with a great guy. They have been together for close to 2yrs, maybe a little over.
She has already cheated on him twice.
Most of her infidelities occurred while she was extremely intoxicated. I have never used alcohol as a reason to anything I should not have done. It should never be the reason. The problem she has is that she gets extremely drunk. She is slurring words. She’s flashing people and peeing on the sides of cars (And this was just 2 weeks ago). And the next day she has no clue what happened. To me that is pretty scary. And this has been happening since college. I blacked out 1 time in college and it scared me so bad I never drunk that excessive anymore. I kinda like to know what I am doing when I am out in public.
My theory is: if you know when you drink a lot that you get crazy, horny and don’t know what you are doing. Stop drinking excessively.
We are all getting older. Some people are not really into the club scene anymore (Like myself…yeah I’m the granny that sits home, drinks wine and watches Lifetime and Chick Flicks) and just like to concentrate on work and families they are forming. She is not forming a family anytime so but she works like crazy and in a relationship. Therefore, there is no need to get crazy drunk, have sex with someone and cheat on your boyfriend, not even remember you did it then feel sorry about it. I love you like a sister, but, let’s admit we have a slight problem, fix it and get our priorities straight. You only have one liver, sweetie.

Don't Know What You Got, Until She's Gone…

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She is your typical “girly-girl”. Loves to surround herself with positive people. She grew up in a great family. She is very respectful. She doesn’t like violence. She even hates guns. She always liked guys. Guys liked her. She was never a slut. She has a great sense of humor. She loves to laugh. She loves to have a good time. She wants to find love. She wants a commitment. She wants marriage…but she can’t seem to find a good man.
“She” is my best friend.
It really saddens me how there are so many wonderful, faithful and trustworthy women in the world, but where are the men to stand by them? My best friend and I known each other since freshmen year of high school so, of course, we have seen guy’s come and go. I have had 2 boyfriends since then and she hasn’t had one in a very long time. And I can’t seem to figure out why. Is she a totally different person with guys than she is with me? She wants to find love so bad. And I am not talking about good sex for a couple months…I am talking about real, deep, emotional adult loving.
She has had so much hurt in the past. Men have used her, no respect; she gave her all and got nothing back in return. One year for Valentine’s Day she got a room at a very nice hotel and made up the room very nice and romantic…rose petals and all. She worked very hard. The guy she was seeing came into the room and acted like he didn’t even notice. And to be a bigger asshole, he didn’t even bring a gift for her or acted like he cared! It makes me so mad. She is such a good person. And she deserves better.
I began to think maybe it’s the age. When we were 20 & 21, no one was ready to settle down yet and still in the party scene. Now we are both 25. I went and got someone 10yrs older (Who was ready to settle down 5yrs prior lol) and she is still pealing through the bad batches to get to a good one.
Now, she believes she has a good guy. But, unfortunately, he has a girlfriend of 7yrs (And a child with her), and I don’t think he is leaving her anytime soon. He claims they are not the same as they used to be and don’t even have sex anymore. Both he and my friend have gone on dates and he hasn’t even tried to anything sexual. He even told her he wants to spend his birthday with her. Without the girlfriend hiding in the dark, he’s a great guy. We all actually went to the same high as well…
But could this be just another barrier holding her back from the real true man for her? Only time will tell…
I hope and pray she does meet her true love. I hope she finds the man that knocks her off her feet and loves her like no other. Every woman and man deserves it. Everyone deserves to experience unconditional love at least once in a lifetime.
I hope those guys that thought she was nothing, thought she wasn’t worth it their precious time, thought they could find better, wanted only to make their relationship a sexual thing…I hope you realize you really missed out on a something special. A real gem.
Some men just don’t know what they got until she’s gone…

My Friend "Other Friend's"

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I had a lot of friends in High School. Some of which I talked to when I graduated and only 1 has stuck with me til this day.
I value friendship very deeply. I have always believed I should have trust, honest and loyalty in that person and she should be able to gain that from me.
For about a year now, I have been noticing my friend going out with her “other friends”. It didn’t really seem to bother me until I realized she never invited me to hang out with her “other friends”. When her and I hung out, it was just she and I and we would go to the bar, out to eat or just hang out at her house. No one else. Nothing big. Just her and I. Which I didn’t mind because we always had a great time together. No drama. Just great alcohol and laughter.
There are so many Social Networks out there today and I was just browsing and found her Twitter site (No, I am not one of those internet stalker chicks that reads people I know Blogs and what-have-you lol) and noticed her saying things that she is going out with old friends, going out to eat and how she had fun doing this and that…and I am thinking, “Why wasn’t I invited? I wasn’t doing anything that night!” I wasn’t mad, I wasn’t annoyed but it did make me a little sad. I just didn’t quite understand why she wasn’t inviting me to all these different events she was going to. I can understand if I was busy, but she never even asked! Maybe she thinks I don’t fit with her “other friends” and she is just trying to hide me…I have no clue. I don’t think I will bring this up with her. I think it will just embarrass me, because maybe I am thinking way too much into it. I don’t want to the whiney girl crying because she doesn’t get invited anywhere. It’s not like that at all.
But, I think it will always be in the back of my mind.
Have you guys ever had this situation happen to you? Different friend clicks even though you are pretty good friends with this person that doesn’t invite you anywhere?